Peace -Merriam-Webster Dictionary describes Peace as 2- freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions
Sitting in the Highlands of Papua New Guinea (PNG), knowing my brother was struggling greatly for the past few months, I have had that peace. Sure there have been times of tears as I cry out to God for healing and help, but up until Wednesday morning January 31st I had a peace about staying in the Highlands. The work that God has lead us to there with MAF, helping to reach isolated people to see physical and spiritual transformation has been a very challenging yet incredibly rewarding experience. The ladies prayer group on Tuesday mornings and the team prayer group Friday at lunchtime has been a great encouragement to me as they pray with me for my brother, and for that peace that I needed to be able to continue the work that was needed to be done.
Our dear friends and colleagues from our time with Nazarene Mission Aviation in West Africa, John and Linda Seaman, shared with us about “Weird Peace” during our time in Africa with the War, and being evacuated etc… They had learned about that “Weird Peace” when their eldest daughter had been in a traumatic car accident and was in a coma for some time and then through her recovery. I really like to use that phrase because it is weird to our human brains. It really doesn’t make sense that at such a difficult time we can be, as the dictionary definition above states, free from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions. What the dictionary fails to tell us, is that peace can only come from above.
Anyone who knows me has probably heard me tell the story of our youngest daughters birth on the Island of Yap in Micronesia. That is where I learned that God gives us what we need when we need it and not 5 seconds before. Our time in Africa confirmed that lesson as we saw God giving us what we needed through the war, the evacuations, the separations and all.
Through our time in PNG, I have learned that yes, God does indeed give us what we need, when we need it, and He also gives us Peace in the midst of the storms of life.
But how does that come about you ask? I have found that it comes through daily spending time in the Word of God and prayer. It is not enough to just read a chapter in the Bible or read a devotional book and check off the box indicating that I have done my good deed for the day. I need to read for understanding and also wait upon the Lord, listening, ready to accept what the Lord wants me to receive at that time.
Just last night I got some new insights as I attended the Ladies Bibles Study at Karcher Church of the Nazarene led by my good friend Lorraine Doramus. They are studying the book Armor of God by Priscilla Shirer, and last nights chapter was on Peace. As we discussed the idea of peace, it occurred to me that peace is not superficial. It is deep and tied to every area of our lives. We have to take an inward look before we can truly reflect the outward presence of peace. We need to look at our relationship with the Lord first of all, then look at ourselves, and how we feel about who we are. Next comes our relationship with our spouse, kids, coworkers, community and so on.
I sat next to my brother talking with (to) him, on the hospital bed in the living room of his home in Kuna, Idaho, with the back raised to help him breathe, watching his labored breathing knowing that the end was near. Through the tears that fell from my eyes and moistened my shirt, I felt that weird peace. My daughters have been telling me for the past few weeks “Uncle Curt is ready.” Curt has been ready to go see Jesus for quite a while. And anyone who knows him knows that. He really didn’t want to leave his precious wife, or his children and it was especially hard to leave the grandchildren, but he was ready. He knew where he was going. He told his daughter and daughter-in-laws that he would get to see their babies before they did, (all 3 of them are pregnant right now), and he would tell them what a great family they would have.